How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 01:03
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
That's it for today.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
I gave him everything. He said he loved me. Why?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
What should you answer when someone says to you in French, "au plaisir de vous revoir"?
Does not procrastinate.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
What are some signs he is deeply in love with you?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Procrastinates a lot.
Ask yourself:
Are fanservice-y characters (i.e. Lara Croft, Tifa Lockhart) immediately bad?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Do you have any problem dating a younger man?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Proba-3’s first artificial solar eclipse - European Space Agency
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
What are the causes of over sweating?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
What are the best self-care practices to improve mental health?
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
What baseball stories from the early days of the sport seem too bizarre to be true?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Making more friends is a goal.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
What I need from you?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):